Is NLP the Key for You to Make Real Change?

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Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a fascinating approach that explores the relationships between how we think (neuro), how we communicate (linguistic), and our patterns of behaviour and emotion (programming). It is a psychological approach that involves analysing strategies and applying them to reach your personal goals. It relates thoughts, language, and patterns of behaviour learned through experience to specific outcomes. Proponents of NLP assume all human action is positive. Therefore, if a plan fails or the unexpected happens, the experience is neither good nor bad—it simply provides more context to the path you’re travelling, and more information for you to use in the future.

What is NLP?

NLP was co-founded by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s as a therapeutic method. It operates on the premise that individuals create a map of the world that influences their perceptions and behaviours, which may not be aligned with reality. By understanding these maps, we can alter our thoughts and actions to achieve our desired outcomes more effectively, seeing our thoughts as objective. It empowers you to put your conscious self in the drivers seat of your life, not letting your thoughts handle the wheel.

How Does NLP Work?

NLP works by identifying the linguistic and behavioural patterns people use to represent their experiences in the world and then providing tools and techniques for modifying these patterns so you can achieve your goals without fear. This approach is used in various fields such as counselling, medicine, law, and business, for improvement in personal development, stress management, communication skills, and more.

The Techniques of NLP we use in Our Mentoring


Several techniques are central to the practice of NLP, the ones we weave into our mentoring are:

  • Anchoring: Creating a stimulus response pattern where a particular cue (anchor) will trigger a specific reaction.
  • Reframing: Changing the perception of an event to see it in a more positive light.

Why is NLP a Practical Tool for Change?


  1. Promotes Enhanced Communication: NLP improves communication skills by teaching how to read body language and other non-verbal cues. It’s about understanding not just what is being communicated, but how it is being delivered.
  2. Builds Personal Empowerment: NLP techniques allow individuals to gain more control over what they considered automatic functions of their own neurology. This empowerment leads to greater self-esteem and confidence, which is crucial for any change.
  3. Facilitates Learning and Education: NLP can be used to improve teaching strategies and learning outcomes. By understanding different learning styles, teachers can use NLP techniques to improve their teaching methods and students’ learning experiences.
  4. Supports Behavior Modification: NLP is very effective in modifying problematic behaviors. It is widely used in treatments for phobias, anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder.
  5. Helps with Conflict Resolution: Through techniques such as reframing, NLP can help individuals look at conflicts from different perspectives, facilitating understanding and resolution.
  6. Encourages Self-Discovery and Mindfulness: NLP involves a lot of self-reflection and may involve revisiting past events. This introspection can lead to greater self-awareness and mindfulness.

NLP isn’t just about change; it’s about deep, meaningful transformation in how you communicate with yourself and relate to others. It offers practical tools to help you understand why you think and act the way you do, providing a pathway to personal and professional growth.

Whether you’re looking to improve your relationships, advance your career, or simply get to know yourself better, NLP can provide you with the tools you need for change. As with any personal development technique, the effectiveness of NLP will vary from person to person, but its potential to inspire change is undeniable.

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